Harry Jowsey & Jess Vestal Are Not The Perfect Match (They Aren’t Good For Each Other)

Summary

• Harry and Jess may not be each other’s true perfect match despite their on-screen chemistry.
• Jessica could be seen as a clout chaser, not necessarily looking for love in reality TV settings.
• Harry’s behavior and values clash with Jessica’s, potentially leading to rocky times in their relationship.

Perfect Match stars Harry Jowsey and Jessica Vestal may have met and fallen for each other on the series, but they’re not each other’s true perfect match. Harry, a major Netflix reality star, has a reputation for going through women quickly and making excuses for his philandering behavior. During his first appearance on Netflix reality TV, Harry cemented his place as a Netflix personality when he broke the rules non-stop on Too Hot To Handle season 1. Pairing up with Francesca Farago, Harry’s relationship continued after the series with some serious accusations of infidelity and gaslighting throughout their time together.

After Too Hot To Handle season 1, Harry went on to expand his career as an influencer on social media, using his fame from the show to grow his audience exponentially. Appearing on other reality TV shows both in and out of the Netflix universe, Harry has been one of the most scandalous reality TV stars the streamer has seen. With his reputation, bringing him into Perfect Match season 2 was enough of a scandal without Love Is Blind’s Jessica joining him, but with the pair coming together, things have been high drama, as their relationship hasn’t stopped causing issues.

Jess Might Be A Clout Chaser

She’s Not Necessarily Looking For Love

Love Is Blind season 6’s Jessica has been a controversial character throughout her time on Netflix, albeit a short time. Jessica’s time in the pods on Love Is Blind was transformative for the series. A young single mother who was focused on finding someone who she could build a life with, Jessica was one of the only women in the season who was direct about what she wanted in a partner. That ability to communicate directly wasn’t something the men of the season were used to, and though they found it attractive, Jessica could be seen as intimidating for it.

After Love Is Blind season 6 ended for Jessica, she quickly began to build her following on Instagram as most of the contestants on the show do. While others had a fair amount of growth, Jessica became one of the most popular people on Love Is Blind during the season’s run and saw an exponential growth in her follower count. Though Jessica has strict standards for who she dates, her time on Perfect Match season 2 could help her to grow her brand. While it’s possible she likes Harry, it’s also possible she could be chasing clout on the show.

Harry Isn’t Ready For A Relationship

He Hasn’t Fully Addressed His Ways

While Harry has been open throughout Perfect Match season 2 that he’s changed his ways and been in therapy for the issues he’s had in other relationships, his behavior hasn’t exactly been a model for someone that’s genuinely looking for love. Harry’s time on Perfect Match season 2 has been a mix of his confessionals on camera that explain how mature he’s become since the least time he was on reality TV, and shots of him displaying immature behavior in the villa that he tries to explain with poor tactics. Harry says he’s dating to marry, but he’s not ready.

Though Harry feels he’s done the work on himself and can build a relationship that honors himself and his partner appropriately, he’s also put himself in a tough spot by making such claims. His behavior has been difficult, as he’s flirted with women who aren’t his partner consistently, even potentially getting physical with one of them during the show. While Harry may see his behavior as playful, he’s being disrespectful to the relationship he claims he’s trying to build with Jessica. If he wanted to be ready for a relationship with someone who’s serious about settling down, he actually would.

They Don’t Seem Compatible

Harry And Jessica’s Values Don’t Align

Although Harry and Jessica have both been claiming that they’re perfect for each other, their conversations on screen don’t really paint them as a compatible couple. Harry, who’s known for his more scandalous behavior, seems to enjoy a lifestyle that has less structure. He’s young and travels, enjoying parties and people wherever he can find them. Harry’s work typically takes him all over the world, but without a home base, he seems to struggle to build a support system around him that can hold him accountable for even the easiest of things. Despite knowing he wants structure, he has none.

Jessica, on the other hand, is a single mother who builds her life around her 10-year-old daughter. Though she’s got a lot of energy and clearly enjoys a party when she can find one, Jessica’s priorities surround her daughter and how she’s able to best care for the life they’ve built together. While Harry has been forward about being excited to meet Jessica’s daughter and be a part of her life, Jessica’s lifestyle doesn’t exactly mesh with Harry’s, and if her life isn’t what Harry ultimately wants, things could be difficult. It appears the Perfect Match couple don’t match up.

Do Harry & Jess Leave Perfect Match Season 2 Together?

The Couple Had Some Rocky Times

Although the finale of Perfect Match season 2 has yet to be released, Jessica and Harry’s relationship has already been speculated about enough for it to be assumed that they do leave the show together. The couple allegedly dated for months before splitting up, but how they get from the drama of the Perfect Match villa to a real life relationship is still up in the air. The couple’s struggles during the series don’t compare to the issues they faced during their relationship. While Harry and Jessica weren’t together, he’s shared posts on his Instagram that look like they’re strong.

During Harry’s time on Dancing With The Stars, his relationship with Jessica allegedly suffered so much from the public scrutiny of his partnership with DWTS pro Rylee Arnold that Harry and Jessica split up. Though this is unconfirmed, the fact that Harry has referred to his ex on his podcast, Boyfriend Material, made many feel Jessica was no longer a part of his life. Now, with his recent Instagram posts of himself and Jessica on a beach where he talks about spending the rest of his life with her, the Perfect Match season 2 couple has confused viewers about everything.

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